Was blog hopping when I came across this meaningful piece of article by Francis.

Love Questions (In Happiness and Sadness)
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In life, there are always ups and downs. Who can really stand by your side when you needed it most... Think about it...
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There was this guy who loved two gals at the same time but he didn't know which one he loved more. Someone taught him.

Ask yourself this question and answer it honestly :

"When you are happy, which gal would you want to share your happiness with?" The one you think of is someone you love.

Ask yourself another question and answer it honestly :

"When you are sad, which gal you want to share your burden with?" The one you think of is also someone you love.

If you think of the same gal when you are happy & sad, that's the most perfect. But if you don't think of the same gal, I would advise you to chose the one you are willing to share your sadness with.

In life, there are more sorrows than happiness. There are too many people that u meet that u can share your happiness with, not necessary your lover.

If you live your life happily, you can also enjoy it alone.

In sadness, however, there are not many people willing to share your burden with you. If you are willing to tell someone your happiness, I am sure that person has got to be someone close & an understanding person to you.

But it shouldn't stop there. If that person only thinks of you when she is happy, but looks for someone else when she is sad, this lover is too unstable, she doesn't treat you as someone she can spend the rest of her life with.

Of course, I will be very happy if I am the first person to share her happiness. But, if she is sad, I will be too willing to stay by her side & ease her pain. Only then, will I believe that I hold a very important position in her heart.

If you are sad, who comes to your mind first?



I was listening to my mp3 while on my way home last night.

Tears just flowed down uncontrollably when I heard this song.

可惜不是你 - 梁静茹

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这一刻突然觉得好熟悉 像昨天今天同时在放映
我这句语气原来好像你 不就是我们爱过的证据
差一点骗了自己骗了你 爱与被爱不一定成正比
我知道被疼是一种运气 但我无法完全交出自己
努力为你改变 却变不了预留的伏线
以为在你身边那也算永远
仿佛还是昨天 可是昨天已非常遥远
但闭上双眼我还看得见
可惜不是你陪我到最后 曾一起走却走失那路口
感谢那是你牵过我的手 还能感受那温柔
那一段我们曾心贴着心 我想我更有权力关心你
可能你已走进别人风景 多希望也有星光的投影
努力为你改变 却变不了预留的伏线
以为在你身边那也算永远 仿佛还是昨天
可是昨天已非常遥远 但闭上双眼我还看得见
可惜不是你陪我到最后 曾一起走却走失那路口
感谢那是你牵过我的手 还能感受那温柔
可惜不是你陪我到最后 曾一起走却走失那路口
感谢那是你牵过我的手 还能感受那温柔
感谢那是你牵过我的手 还能温暖我胸口

On a happier note, I watched 'Le Grand Chef' with Raymond @ Marina last night.

A movie worth your money.

Hilarious at the beginning, touching & sad towards the end.

There was a part which really touched me.

The actor had to kill his own cow which he had kept for many many years!

The cow was crying!

Gosh! Ray, happier movie next time round can???

Received some pics from Wendi. Taken at Dragonfly over the weekends.